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Save it for a Rainy Day

In Musings on March 24, 2009 at 9:41 pm

As I was driving to work today, the Dos XXs commercial was on. I couldn’t find the exact commercial, but it was along these lines.

One of the last lines was, ” he never saves anything for a rainy day.”  Which made me think about if I wanted to be a saver for rainy days, or a live life to the moment type of person. I also wondered, where the saying came from. After a bit of googling I cam across:

Save for a rainy day – to keep something (usually money) until one really needs it.  Formerly most jobs, such as farm jobs, were dependent on the weather. Since they could not be carried out in rainy weather, no money was earned then.

As this saying has been around from before 1850, it was a bit of an old one and harder to find.  I found it and other sayings here.

But I digress. My point, saving for a rainy day, should we? Or should we enjoy life now.  I am a full believer in being prepared, in fact be prepared for a blog post on my preparation for disasters, etc.  Monkeybot has been so kind to  send me items for my personal preparedness. But the question that was weighing on my mind this morning, was am I working now like I was a farmer?  –waking up at  5am and going to bed when the sun is down, trying to squeeze as much work/savings as I can out of each day, with the belief that when the rainy day comes I’ll have both time and money to keep me safe.  With that thought on my mind, I then ran across (thanks twitter) Met Life’s Study on how we are saving money and preparing for rainy days.

Couple of highlights for you:

50% of Americans say they are only  one month — or only two paychecks — or less away from not being able to meet their financial obligations if they were to lose their job, and more than half of these, a startling 28% of the total respondents, couldn’t survive financially for more than two weeks.

I thought the statistic on eating out was interesting, especially as it concerns Generation Y:

66% are eating out less often. That figure rises to 71% among GenXers.

We were eating out a lot, because I was working too much and too tired to cook by the time I got home.  I’ve been trying to lose weight, so have been making an effort to cook more home low-fat meals, so I guess I fall into that statistic, but for other reasons.

As for savings, we have a bit more saved than most, which makes me ask again, am I saving EVERYTHING for a rainy day, and not living my life? I am thinking yes, as if I was doing something fun, then I’d be blogging about that, and not old idioms, random surveys by Met Life, and my pathetic work life!

Girl time– it’s justified

In Me, Musings on August 20, 2008 at 8:07 pm

So for my regular readers (ahh don’t I sound egotistical– it’s because I am), you may have picked up on the theme of I am a stress case. Someone pointed out today that every time they see me I’m twiddling my hair as it comforts me – a remnant of my thumb sucking as a child. Well it turns out that officially all the time I’ve been spending with my girlfriends is good for me. I just thought I was procrastinating all the work that seems to be piling up both professionally and domestically (thank heavens for Ashley!!!) Read on for the study. . .

de-stressin

de-stressin'

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In Musings on August 8, 2008 at 8:19 am

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In Musings on August 7, 2008 at 2:06 pm

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the end of my world

In Musings on June 23, 2008 at 7:34 pm

After a nice weekend at the beach a few weeks back I am officially ruined. Especially as I haven’t had time to go back yet. Not only did a day at the beach made me realize I truly am fat. Photos found on Natalie and Gavin’s blog, though I personally am fonder of the photo Paul sent. . .

Point being I woke up at 5:30 to do some P90x exercise routines to get skinny. I can’t say again, as I’ve never quite been the skinny type. But being out of shape isn’t what’s ruined me (that’s only depressed me). I’m ruined because my will to work is gone. Granted I did emails for 15 minutes at 7, showed up to work from 8:30-7:20 and didn’t take a lunch . . . digressing. . . I don’t want to work anymore!!!! That’s the point. I have lost any drive to achieve anything in the work realm. I could care less about the money. I could care less about the recognition, sense of achievement and learning. Bah, bah, and double bah.

I want the sense of achievement from having a kid, or volunteering at some nice non-profit. I want the enjoyment of reading a really good book and analyzing the crap out of it. I want to be able to walk along the side of a lake and just reflect inwards. I want to try out a new recipe, or actually decorate my house! But I also loathe the thought of just being at home, I just want more me time too. So I think I need to start a business. I really think I can do it! Here is to more week days at the beach!